Too often, this is what happens in all kinds of relationships. People get comfortable. They get used to the routine. They forget. And no, I am not making a thinly veiled jab at the person in my relationship. I am happy thankyouverymuch. I am talking about your other relationships. The one that have been there for years, that really we forget when something shiny romantic comes along. Your family. Your friends. Your other relationships. I admit, I can take things for granted. I have a pretty awesome support system. When things crumbled around me, the people I didn’t see all those years, those I wrote off because I knew I hadn’t kept…