Today, on a work day Friday, I encountered a bunch of things at work that have, as they have been doing so all week, made my head spin. I had to stand up, get a drink of water, refreshed my face with a splash from the faucet to reboot my perspective as I was getting overwhelmed with all the bad things pouring in, and issues I could not seem to keep from happening that I thought I already had a handle on. But I had to stop. I think, for us, dwelling too much on a problem, or discussing it in detail, can be as toxic as the problem itself.…