I think you should listen to Rudimentalâ€™s These Days today

Breakups are most often messy. Traumatic. We can’t help but wish that some people who broke us or we broke could cease existing in the same space we move through.

There are some separations that are cleaner and easier and I think that this song appeals to those who want to still be friends with their exes in the future. And in an ideal world, we all want to be the mature person who’s like that. I have to admit I am not that person yet. I do hope to be that way someday.

So I hope you find the openness to be like this with the people that have come and gone into your life. But for now, it can’t hurt to feel it through song.

Love is just a tool
To remind us who we are
And that we are not alone
When we’re walking in the dark

I hope someday
We’ll sit down together
And laugh with each other
About these days, these days

Listen to the song here.