I cannot stress enough how much real hugs, the one that take your breath away, help me on so many levels. In as much as I identify with being introverted, and introverted being not one to be the first to introduce myself, or share stories off the bat, and like crowds a whole lot, I do enjoy being with the people I love. And a lot of that, I realized again last night, is getting these not fake hugs that encircle and make me feel safe. The ones that hold on even after the cursory 2 seconds. I got a lot of these last night, and as I am not…