It doesn’t look like me and the pose is awkward, mostly because this was four sangrias in with little sleep. I’d like to think I was happy in the photo this was based on, albeit a bit dazed. Pre-pandemic, and just a little bit spoiled by having one of my favorite friends around for longer than usual, and being irresponsible with everything else in my life. And I was. Selfish and dropping everything else that wasn’t work or fun. I barely knew what was happening at home or helped out at all. The rest of 2020 was a learning experience for me. In both good and bad. I felt like…